Finding Self Love is the journey towards self discovery often ignored or unmindful in most of our lives. Ego and self love are most often confused for one another. Self love
is standing up for what we really deserve and taking a step forward even when
you have to take it alone rather waiting for comforting circumstances or people
to wave a green flag. Often when one wish to learn to love the self or
reached a point they became aware or realized that they have been ignoring the
little voice crying for love they will be standing in a too long ignored path.
It shows us the vulnerability we are concealing from our own personality and
close relationships in your life. By Learning self love one will identify
what stood as hindrance in the first place to love yourself where different
dynamics of family dramas, early traumas, death of loved one, loss of dreams
etc comes into play. Acceptance of the damage or hurt done to us is the first
step (acknowledgement of the variety of human emotions).
Finding Self Love in Relationships
The relationships which are not
serving the purpose of mutual growth and companionship will be cut down. It is
natural to desire the company of others but as it down played us in the past it
is time to move on to get stuck in that circle.
You might fail at it several times
to let go of those stuck old patterns but slowly you will transcend it. Trust
me you will!
Somehow we will outgrow the old patterns of being okay to be treated like a monumental toy for the sake of maintaining certain social circles, friendships or marriage. This eternal continuity of self sabotage will disrupt the life energy and one must practice Finding Self Love again.
Self
love is a journey not a destination......................
You don’t need anyone’s approval to accept the version of who you are and don’t have to facilitate their opinion against your priority. Some relationships wither away when you are emerging from old patterns. At that point hold on to self love. Self-love is very different from narcissism or ego rides in general. As you walk through the path of Finding Self Love one will accept their flaws and imperfections.
Sometimes the hardest things to do are the very things that set
us free.
Finding Self love in life again
Sometimes the difficult challenges we set up for ourselves are the situations that fortify us and grow into compassionate individual. Sometimes the most intense relationships that we left are the most learned lessons.
Even when one experience
a lot of success in career and life however in the absence of self love as
foundation there are higher chances of self sabotage behaviour in
their personal life. Indeed Finding Self Love is a significant commitment one has to cherish.
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